The Universe has been cackling ever since it bumped Perry and I together in an elevator after a dreamy Cure concert at Blossom in summer of 1992. Perry was looking for the swimming pool, I was looking for pizza. We decided that if we happened to find a pizza waiting for us next to the pool then we’d have empirical proof of God. We found neither pizza nor pool but spent hours chatting happily about our favorite artists, songs, art supplies, words, colors, physics, and nature. A week later I opened my mailbox and unexpectedly found a charming, funny, and playful cartoon drawn by Perry. Whereupon I found subjective proof of God. We became fast friends and I always laugh out loud thinking of how hyper, happy, and full of nonsense and pranks I was and still am and how well Perry tolerated me being way too much. As in “beep, beep back up the clown car and 22 Autumns pop out of one heart” as my husband Jim so kindly says about me. I reminded Perry over the decades: you must have asked for me as a friend, karmically. I am eternally grateful for Perry; he always encouraged me to keep drawing, painting, and to create all kinds of art. He noticed every last detail and always acknowledged the value of every spirit he met in life. He encouraged everyone. He wanted everyone to feel noticed and loved. We jokingly called ourselves the 24-hour butlers of Nothingness. Like Zen masters who love so deeply but must surrender to the wabi-sabi of life. Perry taught me so much about being a loving, kind, thoughtful, generous, understanding, and magical friend. I could indeed write a book about everything I learned from him and all of our adventures, joys, and funny ideas. The cosmic pinata showered me with one of the best friends anyone could ever, ever, ever wish for. Perry and I laughed a lot this past summer at the beach about how nothing ever changes while floating in the ocean, spying on sneaky snook, and enjoying pizza parties. Perry helped me pick out my new ukulele; I wished for a haunting, rinky-dink, 50’s beachy reverb. We tried many until we both blurted out the same thing: “it’s her!” and laughed. I think of him playing “Lil Lilac”
smiling whenever I play her.
My heart, love, prayers, hugs, and kisses go out to his wonderful, loving wife Donna; he would sing her praises to me about her being his walking Sunbeam who brightened his life so dearly. I am so grateful that they found each other in this lifetime!!! I also have been sending love through the air to all of Perry’s dear friends, family, and pets. Ever since Perry became Eternal Love…there have been 5 wild parrots who greet me every morning outside my home. I’ve lived here in Sarasota for 12 years and only saw them once before. Now they are here every morning and I believe they are a sign from the Fun Cloud Party In the Sky that Perry is enjoying the champagne and getting the confetti ready for all of our eventual arrivals.
One of the last things Perry and I talked about was creating a full-color, printed, coffee table art book of all of his artwork. Perry was so very gifted!!! He could paint, draw, doodle, and capture ANYTHING. He often titled artworks that he sent me: “art no one will ever see.” I’d joke: “So I’m no one now, am I?!?” Donna and I have chatted about asking Perry’s friends, family, or whomever has pieces of Perry’s cartoons, paintings, doodles, etc. if they’d send a high-quality PDF along to compile and print. An art book of Perry’s work would be so glorious to share what he lived for; spreading love, kindness, and laughter through gorgeous expression. Please email me any artwork of Perry’s if you’d like it to be included in Perry’s art book. autumnyvesbeckett@gmail.com
Perry and I would sing Word on a Wing together in awe over the years. So crank it up and sing along! I’m sipping Framboise celebrating the illustriousness of Perry right now on the beach he so dearly loved. We have all been insanely blessed by having such an astonishing, loving, rare, exquisite, and fun friend. May you think of Perry often and lovingly!!! Thank you for letting me spill my heart. Reading all of the tributes and gratitude for Perry has been so meaningful. So much love…
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Autumn
●
30 January 2026